Improving Sleep Through Food

When you think about ways to get better sleep, what comes to mind first? Taking melatonin supplements, limiting blue light from screens/devices, and establishing a consistent sleep routine are often some of the ways we try to intervene on our sleep patterns. We don’t often think of our diet as a place to promote better sleep, but there is interesting evidence that certain foods can help us tend to our sleep, without needing to take additional supplements or drastically change our habits. 

Imagine in your mind a traditional Thanksgiving meal. If yours included turkey, you also probably experienced sleepiness soon after the meal. While some of this tiredness is likely due to eating large meals at Thanksgiving, the consumption of turkey also had an impact on feeling sleepy. This is because turkey is a food containing high amounts of tryptophan, an amino acid that is prevalent in protein-rich foods. It is a precursor to the release of melatonin and serotonin, which both influence sleep. 

Research has shown that people with low levels of tryptophan often experience anxiety, worry thoughts, and tension, which can all lead to low moods and trouble falling asleep. By increasing tryptophan consumption via foods, we can encourage our pineal gland to naturally produce melatonin, which can help you fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer. If you’re finding it difficult to get good sleep right now, or if anxiety is impacting your ability to fall and stay asleep, consider adding tryptophan-rich foods into your diet. 

Foods High In Tryptophan:

Eggs (especially the yolks)

Cheese

Pineapple

Tofu

Salmon

Spinach

Nuts and Seeds

Turkey

Chicken

In order to get the most benefit from eating tryptophan-rich foods, it is encouraged to pair these with healthy carbs. Carbs promote the release of insulin, which leads to amino acid absorption, allowing tryptophan (an amino acid) to remain in the bloodstream. Try to include brown rice, oatmeal, fruits, vegetables, and whole-grain foods with your meals to reap the benefits of eating foods high in tryptophan. By mindfully adding some of these foods into your diet, we hope you will start to notice positive changes in your sleep quality. 

References

How Tryptophan Boosts Your Sleep Quality and Mood. (2018). Retrieved from https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/tryptophan#section7


7 Foods That Could Boost Your Serotonin: The Serotonin Diet. (2018). Retrieved from https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sleep/foods-that-could-boost-your-serotonin#food-and-mood

RAIN Meditation

Are you finding it challenging to accept the present moment? As we drift deeper into this new normal, it’s quite difficult to not get stuck in judgments about our situation, others, and even ourselves. When we feel frustrated, anxious, uncertain, and disappointed about the realities we face, it can be tempting to turn inward and criticize our emotional responses and reactions. Being hard on ourselves is a common manifestation of experiencing painful emotions, but often gets us stuck in negative feelings. What would it mean to experience a painful reality while giving yourself compassion and acceptance? Loving ourselves, especially when we are truly upset about internal and external factors, is a challenging task. To help us explore ideas of acceptance and self-compassion, we can turn to Tara Brach’s RAIN meditation. 

RAIN stands for:

Recognize what is going on 

Allow the experience to be there, just as it is

Investigate with curiosity

Nurture with loving kindness

What follows is a basic guide for practicing RAIN meditation. This will give you an understanding of what to consider within each letter. Additionally, you may want to watch the video at the end of this blog post, in which Tara Brach leads the listener through the RAIN meditation. 

R: Think about and imagine a situation that brings up painful emotions, thoughts, and sensations. This could be a difficult conversation, an unfair reality you face, or something that’s making you feel stuck. Bring your attention to what’s coming up for you. Try to take a curious stance on your emotions, body sensations, thoughts, urges, etc. Just notice and describe your experience. 

A: Without trying to avoid, suppress, or change your experience, experiment with ways to let it be. This might be possible with a mantra like “It is what it is.”

I: Investigate your experience with the purpose of digging deeper into the meaning that exists. Ask yourself questions like “What about this is most painful?” “Which emotions am I experiencing?” “Does this situation remind me of something from the past/bring up similar experiences?” “What sensations are arising in me?” and “What about this makes me feel most vulnerable?”

N: What message do you need to hear most right now? Amidst this challenging situation, you are doing your best. Visualize giving yourself a hug or comforting yourself with genuine care and compassion. Imagine love encompassing you. 

References

Practice the RAIN Meditation with Tara Brach (2019). Retrieved from https://www.mindful.org/investigate-anxiety-with-tara-brachs-rain-practice/

Feeling our feelings during COVID-19

Joanna R. Love, PhD

For many people, social distancing means more time alone – and that means more time to experience strong feelings or unwanted thoughts.

Even during more typical times, it is quite normal for people to experience difficult feelings or upsetting thoughts in spaces of silence, stillness, or solitude. Now, as we all spend more time at home and away from others, many of us are spending much more time by ourselves than we did before the COVID-19 crisis. 

Life during the pandemic means some of us are less consumed by work or other responsibilities, and we may not have access to the same distractions that used to occupy our minds. Maybe we used to quiet or suppress unwanted thoughts with distractions such as busyness, social activities, stress naps, self-medicating behaviors, or substances. Perhaps without our awareness, these things helped us cope with or avoid hard thoughts and feelings. Now that they’re gone, we’re encountering some things we may not know how to explain or address.  

Besides the extra time and space in our minds, we are all also enduring an ongoing crisis! Your anxiety and stress response may be amplifying those already unpleasant thoughts and feelings. Crisis sort of “turns up the volume” on our normal stress responses. You may be finding that you have less mental and emotional energy to deal with stressors in your life. The “little things” might be hitting you harder than usual, and you may find yourself more easily frustrated, irritable, or tearful. 

In other words, more of us are “feeling our feelings” right now. And for some of us, it may be the first time we’ve really done so. Of course, most of us experience some unpleasant thoughts or feelings from time to time and in small doses. But perhaps now they seem to be popping up more frequently – maybe some of them are even constant. 

There is hope for change, even during this otherwise difficult time. One productive aspect of crisis is that it can be a catalyst for change or growth, if we let it. 

Suggestions for dealing with feeling your feelings – at home!

  • Try an at-home Exposure Therapy experiment – in this case, you’re facing the fear or discomfort of silence or solitude. Start with 5 minutes. Can you sit quietly with yourself for a few minutes without distractions? Just you. No TV, phone, music, podcasts. Here are a few tips:

    • Journal: What are the thoughts or feelings that come up in that space of stillness? If you don’t like writing, you can express the feelings that come up through art. 

    • Remember to breathe! Some people find it helpful to focus on taking deep, intentional breaths, and counting each one. This doesn’t work for everyone – some people get distracted by counting or thinking about their breaths. Either way, try to slow down your exhalation (breathing out), because this helps your body to calm down.

    • Can you slowly increase the amount of time you spend with yourself? If you can be with yourself for 5 minutes, can you try 8 minutes?

  • Think about the mind-body connection: what is something good you can do with and for your body? 

    • Physical movement is a great way to help release the stress that gets built up in your body. If you’re new to physical activity, start with a 30-minute walk!

    • Drink water and eat good foods

    • Try to keep a regular sleep routine and get 7-9 hours of sleep each night

    • Pet your animals

    • Get some sunshine

    • Organize your physical environment

  • Consider talking with a mental health counselor or therapist to process, manage, and make sense of thoughts, feelings, or memories that come up in silence and solitude, or during times of crisis. 

This is especially important for anyone who has been managing really heavy feelings (like depression, anxiety, or bad memories) for a while, and now you’re feeling like it’s just too much to handle.

  • Get help in an mental health emergency – if you have thoughts about hurting or killing yourself, please call 911 or reach out for support.

      • COPE Hotline - 24-hour emotional support and crisis intervention from trained volunteers: 262-377-2673

      • Hopeline - 24/7 Counseling & Support Text LineText “HOPELINE” to 74174

It is normal – and even expected – that you may notice new thoughts and feelings during times of transition, crisis, or increased solitude. While this is likely not a cause for concern, it may be your mind’s way of pointing you toward areas where there is greater wellness to be achieved. For many people, therapy is an effective way to address inexplicable or unwanted thoughts and feelings.

If you’ve been thinking about giving therapy a try, but you haven’t been able to fit it into your schedule, now is a great time to try it out from the comfort of your own home! In response to the COVID-19 crisis, we are offering telehealth services by phone or video call.